Anal Sex Answers
If you and your wife are just getting into anal sex I really recommend using a few toys first. It helps stretch things out a little down there and helps you both learn what her limits are before anyone gets hurt. I started off with anal beads because they are graduated, making it very easy to ease into the larger sizes. They make a lot of great anal dildos and anal vibrators for beginners as well.
And, of course, lube, lube, lube, lube. You can never use too much. You can never reapply too often. If you are using dildos and vibrators you have to make sure you use a lubricant that works with whatever material your toy is made out of. If you are using a cyberskin dildo you can’t use a silicone based lube, for example. Water-based lubes are pretty safe for any toy, but they can dry out so you really need to use a lot, often. Boy Butter makes an anal lube that is water based but lasts a lot longer then usual water based lubes. It’s a little bit of a creamier formula.
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November 12th, 2008 at 11:29 pm
How big of a toy can I use? Right now I’m using an 8″ dildo but I want to go bigger. Like something that looks like a huge cock, but I don’t want to do any permenant damage.