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What is the Best Anal Sex Toy for a Guy?

Wednesday, December 17th, 2008

I’m very partial to the Aneros MGX Male G-Spot Stimulator myself. It was medically researched and designed by doctors and I’ve heard that it is the only anal toy with its design patented, so you know its doing something at least a little different than the other toys out there. It can even be used hands free.

If you’re looking for a good anal vibrator I really like the Scorpion Stinger. It has a built in cock ring, and the anal vibrator part of it is super flexible. Since you can bend it exactly how you want it, it’s a great toy for prostate stimulation.

Like all anal toys don’t forget the lube. My favorite is the water based lubricant Boy Butter. It is the only water based lube I’ve ever tried that didn’t dry up and evaporate mid-play. Boy Butter is safe to use on both the Aneros MGX and the Scorpion Stinger.

What Carrie Needs

Wednesday, December 17th, 2008

Carrie was a high-spirited, competitive kind of a girl. I had seen her plenty of times running for victory across the lacrosse field in high-school, had teamed up against and with her for those late night “Scrabble” marathons at the shore house our parents shared and had compared grades with her in college even though we had both studied for different majors. Along the way of course we had done the ‘booty call’ thing (if they even still call it that these days) and I seriously thought she kept coming back cause I could keep up with her insatiable sexual appetite. She’d visit me late nights after being out with her latest date, which hadn’t even come close to satisfying her sexual needs, and more often than not Carrie’d want something kinky…and more often than not I was into it. Her big brown eyes would get wild and even wider, I’d add a wrinkle to a suggestion and off we’d go.

Like me, Carrie was a bisexual woman. We spoke about the men we dated (this aspect of our life we never compared) but she, nor I, had ever introduced or spoke about a strap-on. I guess we were both getting enough dick we didn’t need or want a fake one, but Carrie “was” into penetration with me…anal penetration. On the few occasions the petite blonde had mentioned anal sex with men, she said it hadn’t been the thing for her. Sure, sometimes she’d get into it-Carrie really was sexual so almost anything could turn her on-but like me, the times she let a guy take her ass had been few and far between. But between us girls…well that was a different matter.

Carrie had lubed up her fingers and spread my cheeks, I had licked her sweet little starfish to drive her wild, but when it came to anything ‘back there’ Carrie ‘took’ more often than not. I mentioned she was wildy sexual and competitive, but man, she became as gentle as a lamb, almost submissive, for ass play.

“I need you to try this,” Carrie said, after she had knocked, come down the flight of stairs to my studio apartment, plucked the two items from her bag and began to strip. I was used to her whirlwind entrances, and I loved to see Carrie naked, but this was unprecedented.

“Interesting,” I said holding out the thin dildo she handed me.

“Made just for lesbians,” she informed me, out of her bra and kicking her sneakers off.

“Are there any lesbians here?” I joked.

“You know what I mean.”

I did. The thing I held was a woman’s sex toy, made mainly for two girls to use on one another (though how you could really make a distinction between gay or straight in anal sex play, I had no idea). I guessed that those huge dildos I had seen or those fat fake cocks could scare someone, especially when it came to putting one up your ass. And indeed this toy in my hand (the other thing Carrie had given me was a new bottle of lube) seemed softer and gentler somehow.

“This is thin but it looks like it’s gonna go deep,” I said, squirting more lube down the toy.

“Definitely,” Carrie said. Completely naked then, she walked up to me, kissed me hard on the mouth then got down on all fours.

“You really are all about the romance, huh?” I snickered and went back to lubing her new toy.
“Jesus Kim, Mark got me all hot like he always does,” Carrie explained under me, wiggling her fine little ass, opening her thin thighs as she spoke. I really was torn with continuing doing what I was doing and getting down there on the floor with her.

“Tonight I was trying to angle myself across him, give him my ass, back up to him, ya know? And all he does is finger me. I just wanted a little swat while he did that, ya know, but he never gets it. I send him all these signals but he never gets it!”

“You should just tell him what you want,” I said, really glopping lube down the long little toy.

“And not come over here for a good ramming? Never!” she said, looking up at me.

Carrie really did look so sweet there on all fours looking back and up at me. Who was I to deny her her deepest wish? I knew I’d get her ass filled, she’d start to quiver and mew and I’d be able to angle myself in front of her. She’d be into licking my pussy like she always did-and Carrie could lick pussy like a pro-and we’d come over and over as I plied her ass deeper and she’d clutch and surrender to me.

I guess, in some ways, we all fulfill a purpose for our lovers, sometimes it can be all encompassing and sometimes it’s only a certain aspect of their desire we speak to; lesbian, straight, bi, it doesn’t matter.

The anal toy was as wet as I was gonna get it without it slipping out of my hands and I got down on my knees as Carrie smiled even wider.

Anal Sex Answers

Wednesday, November 5th, 2008

If you and your wife are just getting into anal sex I really recommend using a few toys first. It helps stretch things out a little down there and helps you both learn what her limits are before anyone gets hurt. I started off with anal beads because they are graduated, making it very easy to ease into the larger sizes. They make a lot of great anal dildos and anal vibrators for beginners as well.
And, of course, lube, lube, lube, lube. You can never use too much. You can never reapply too often. If you are using dildos and vibrators you have to make sure you use a lubricant that works with whatever material your toy is made out of. If you are using a cyberskin dildo you can’t use a silicone based lube, for example. Water-based lubes are pretty safe for any toy, but they can dry out so you really need to use a lot, often. Boy Butter makes an anal lube that is water based but lasts a lot longer then usual water based lubes. It’s a little bit of a creamier formula.

Top 3 myths about anal sex and anal sex toys

Tuesday, October 21st, 2008

1. Anal sex is just for gay men. Men and women, gay, straight, and everything in-between can and do enjoy anal play. In men anal sex toys stimulate the prostate gland, which is also known as the ‘male g-spot’. Anal sex toys can stimulate the g-spot, indirectly, in woman.

2. Anal sex is painful. Like any kind of penetration there is a potential to make your partner uncomfortable or feel pain while having anal sex. The key is to go slowly, communicate often, and use plenty of lube.

3. Anal sex is dirty. All sexual acts involve an exchange of bodily fluids and have some small level of spreading disease. Part of being a considerate partner is keeping yourself clean and fresh. Most people are fine with showering or bathing before anal sex but there are anal douches on the market if you want an added level of cleanliness. When using anal sex toys, like with most toys, using a condom with them will make clean up easier and help stop the spread of germs.

Checking in on anal health

Tuesday, October 21st, 2008

The only thing you really have to worry about it if you tear at all when you use your extreme anal sex toys. Even a little tear has the potential for trouble. It makes you more likely to pick up STD’s (even in a monogamous relationship it pays to play safe!) or get an infection from the random bacteria passing through there.

As for the size issue have you and your partner ever tried a penis sleeve or girth rings or anything? They are an awesome gay sex toy that can give you the size you crave while your partner gets some enjoyment himself. I’ve used both and loved how they felt- and was even happier with how good I could tell it made my partner feel

Latex gloves and condoms: yea or nay?

Tuesday, September 30th, 2008

I saw this forum thread somewhere else…check it out

Newbie: I’m a little new to both the Tabu Toys forums and to anal sex toys or even anal sex in general. I keep on hearing a lot about using latex gloves when fisting and putting condoms on your anal sex toys before using them but kind of don’t see the point. What do you guys think?

Wildbill: I always use condoms on my anal sex toys. It makes clean up a snap. All you do is slide that rubber off and you’re done. I think my anal sex toys last longer and work better because of it.
My girl demands we use latex gloves when doing any type of anal play. Mostly because she likes it to be just one of many things we do at a time and, of course is worried about spreading germs to her other areas.

MysticAngel: Anal tissue can tear easily! You are so much more likely to get a disease; you should definitely use condoms and gloves. Even if you’re both tested and loyal to each other you still have to worry about regular old staph infections.

Sexymom: Call me crazy but I’ve always thought using latex gloves makes fisting a little more painless. I swear that the combination of gloves and lube make for a smoother experience.

Keep your ass safe: some biology behind bum fucking

Tuesday, September 30th, 2008

Many people have heard that a good ass fuck may feel great but may not be safe for your bum. Anal sex is quite safe, so long as you take a few precautions. You want to be careful not to damage the sphincter muscle– that’s the muscle that is in charge of bowel control. So, use a lot of good lube because your ass won’t be wetting itself, and start slowly. If it hurts, you should slow down a bit. Anal should feel good– any pain is a sign to back up and slow down. Let your good feelings guide you.

Anal fissures are small tears that can happen inside your rectum. Due to the rectum’s toxic nature, it can be difficult for anal fissures to heal. As with the sphincter muscle, there should be no pain. If your anal fucking gets too rough and begins to hurt, that is a sign that you are in danger of getting anal fissures. Slow things down a bit, keep it at a pain-free level, and you should be fine.

One concern that doctors have regarding anal sex is that many people do not use protection against sexually transmitted diseases during anal sex. STDs can be spread through anal sex, so it is important to protect yourself and your partner with dental dams, and finger and cock condoms during anal play.

Remember to use protection and keep things pain free, and you’ll find that many of the rumors about anal sex are untrue, and that anal play is a great way to expand your sexual horizons.

1. For this anal-retentive chic, there’s just no lovin’ like a good ass fuckin’

Tuesday, September 30th, 2008

So, I admit that I’m a bit anal-retentive, a little OCD about things. I’m hyper-organized; there is a place for everything and everything should be in its place. I’m a clean freak; I hate my wall-to-wall carpeting and vacuum it every single day. My best girlfriends all think I’m prude. My husband and I have never had a menage-a-trois end well. Shit, I didn’t get my first dildo until after I was married. It was bright green and hard plastic. The most uncomfortable piece of crap. It wasn’t until a friend turned me onto the Rampant Rabbit that sex started to be fun.

For our anniversary, my husband bought me a waterproof vibrator, because I love to masturbate in the bath. Turns out, I love taking that little vibe in the ass better. When he’s fucking my ass with that, while I use my rabbit on my vag and clit, I can cum again and again. When I tire of that, I climb on top of him and fuck him until we’re both spent. Turns out, I’m turned on by anal sex toys.

I guess maybe it’s ok to be anal retentive?

Anal Sex

Tuesday, September 30th, 2008

Anal sex is a rewarding part of many gay relationships. Even so, some men shy away from anal sex for a variety of reasons. Some men worry that it is ‘dirty’ or worry because there is an increased chance of catching sexually transmitted diseases, others worry simply that it will hurt. But there is a lot you can do to quiet these fears.

The single easiest thing to do if you are interested in anal sex and to experiment with gay sex toys. These can help you explore your own body, learn what you like and don’t like, and learn what your body is comfortable with. Along with your gay sex toys you should be using plenty of lubrication. The ample use of lubrication during anal sex can also reduce your risk of disease as it will reduce friction on the condom, and make it less likely that the condom will tear.

Proper hygiene is a must for you and your partner. Not only does it make the experience more pleasurable for everyone but it also reduces the likelihood of minor infections and disease that can be spread by anal sex.

Silicone, anal toys, and lubes . . .Oh! My!

Tuesday, September 30th, 2008

I love anal sex toys but I definitely have concerns about keeping them clean. I’ve found that anal toys made from silicone are key to keeping things clean and nice down there. Not only is it easy to wipe down and disinfect but it also feels really soft to touch.

The one downside to silicone anal toys is that you shouldn’t use silicone based lube with them . . . and of course a good lube is key to really enjoying your anal toys! There’s no natural lubrication to be found anally so you definitely need something out of a bottle you like.

The old joke for anal toys is that “too much lube is almost enough”. I really like silicone lube but it can ruin anal toys made from silicone or cyberskin. The best part of lube shopping, I think, is trying them out to see how they work. Oil based lubes have limitations, same as silicone lubes; they can’t be used with latex condoms and toys. This basically leaves water based lubes which are great for sensitive skin and won’t ruin your anal toys! The only complaint I have about water based lubes is that they can dry up so you either have to keep applying more or you need to keep a spray bottle of water handy.


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