Anal Playtime

I’m very partial to the Aneros MGX Male G-Spot Stimulator myself. It was medically researched and designed by doctors and I’ve heard that it is the only anal toy with its design patented, so you know its doing something at least a little different than the other toys out there. It can even be used hands free.

If you’re looking for a good anal vibrator I really like the Scorpion Stinger. It has a built in cock ring, and the anal vibrator part of it is super flexible. Since you can bend it exactly how you want it, it’s a great toy for prostate stimulation.

Like all anal toys don’t forget the lube. My favorite is the water based lubricant Boy Butter. It is the only water based lube I’ve ever tried that didn’t dry up and evaporate mid-play. Boy Butter is safe to use on both the Aneros MGX and the Scorpion Stinger.

Carrie was a high-spirited, competitive kind of a girl. I had seen her plenty of times running for victory across the lacrosse field in high-school, had teamed up against and with her for those late night “Scrabble” marathons at the shore house our parents shared and had compared grades with her in college even though we had both studied for different majors. Along the way of course we had done the ‘booty call’ thing (if they even still call it that these days) and I seriously thought she kept coming back cause I could keep up with her insatiable sexual appetite. She’d visit me late nights after being out with her latest date, which hadn’t even come close to satisfying her sexual needs, and more often than not Carrie’d want something kinky…and more often than not I was into it. Her big brown eyes would get wild and even wider, I’d add a wrinkle to a suggestion and off we’d go.

Like me, Carrie was a bisexual woman. We spoke about the men we dated (this aspect of our life we never compared) but she, nor I, had ever introduced or spoke about a strap-on. I guess we were both getting enough dick we didn’t need or want a fake one, but Carrie “was” into penetration with me…anal penetration. On the few occasions the petite blonde had mentioned anal sex with men, she said it hadn’t been the thing for her. Sure, sometimes she’d get into it-Carrie really was sexual so almost anything could turn her on-but like me, the times she let a guy take her ass had been few and far between. But between us girls…well that was a different matter.

Carrie had lubed up her fingers and spread my cheeks, I had licked her sweet little starfish to drive her wild, but when it came to anything ‘back there’ Carrie ‘took’ more often than not. I mentioned she was wildy sexual and competitive, but man, she became as gentle as a lamb, almost submissive, for ass play.

“I need you to try this,” Carrie said, after she had knocked, come down the flight of stairs to my studio apartment, plucked the two items from her bag and began to strip. I was used to her whirlwind entrances, and I loved to see Carrie naked, but this was unprecedented.

“Interesting,” I said holding out the thin dildo she handed me.

“Made just for lesbians,” she informed me, out of her bra and kicking her sneakers off.

“Are there any lesbians here?” I joked.

“You know what I mean.”

I did. The thing I held was a woman’s sex toy, made mainly for two girls to use on one another (though how you could really make a distinction between gay or straight in anal sex play, I had no idea). I guessed that those huge dildos I had seen or those fat fake cocks could scare someone, especially when it came to putting one up your ass. And indeed this toy in my hand (the other thing Carrie had given me was a new bottle of lube) seemed softer and gentler somehow.

“This is thin but it looks like it’s gonna go deep,” I said, squirting more lube down the toy.

“Definitely,” Carrie said. Completely naked then, she walked up to me, kissed me hard on the mouth then got down on all fours.

“You really are all about the romance, huh?” I snickered and went back to lubing her new toy.
“Jesus Kim, Mark got me all hot like he always does,” Carrie explained under me, wiggling her fine little ass, opening her thin thighs as she spoke. I really was torn with continuing doing what I was doing and getting down there on the floor with her.

“Tonight I was trying to angle myself across him, give him my ass, back up to him, ya know? And all he does is finger me. I just wanted a little swat while he did that, ya know, but he never gets it. I send him all these signals but he never gets it!”

“You should just tell him what you want,” I said, really glopping lube down the long little toy.

“And not come over here for a good ramming? Never!” she said, looking up at me.

Carrie really did look so sweet there on all fours looking back and up at me. Who was I to deny her her deepest wish? I knew I’d get her ass filled, she’d start to quiver and mew and I’d be able to angle myself in front of her. She’d be into licking my pussy like she always did-and Carrie could lick pussy like a pro-and we’d come over and over as I plied her ass deeper and she’d clutch and surrender to me.

I guess, in some ways, we all fulfill a purpose for our lovers, sometimes it can be all encompassing and sometimes it’s only a certain aspect of their desire we speak to; lesbian, straight, bi, it doesn’t matter.

The anal toy was as wet as I was gonna get it without it slipping out of my hands and I got down on my knees as Carrie smiled even wider.

If you and your wife are just getting into anal sex I really recommend using a few toys first. It helps stretch things out a little down there and helps you both learn what her limits are before anyone gets hurt. I started off with anal beads because they are graduated, making it very easy to ease into the larger sizes. They make a lot of great anal dildos and anal vibrators for beginners as well.
And, of course, lube, lube, lube, lube. You can never use too much. You can never reapply too often. If you are using dildos and vibrators you have to make sure you use a lubricant that works with whatever material your toy is made out of. If you are using a cyberskin dildo you can’t use a silicone based lube, for example. Water-based lubes are pretty safe for any toy, but they can dry out so you really need to use a lot, often. Boy Butter makes an anal lube that is water based but lasts a lot longer then usual water based lubes. It’s a little bit of a creamier formula.

Your first anal sex toy is a big purchase and it’s not one you just want to jump into. There are a lot of things to consider before buying your first anal sex toy. You should experiment with anal play first, using fingers only to get an idea of what you want from your anal sex toy. Do you like the feeling of fullness while you do other things? If so a butt plug is probably the toy for you. Do you like the stimulation of feeling something penetrate your anus? Then you may want an anal dildo or anal beads. If you want some combination of the two you may want an anal vibrator.

The biggest choice (pun definitely intended) when it comes to anal sex toys is the size. If you are just buying your first anal sex toy you probably have not had a lot of anal experience. Smaller is definitely better in this case. If you try to buy a large anal sex toy too soon you may end up hurting yourself. It takes time to work yourself up to the extreme toys.

Your next choice is materials. There are a variety of materials out on the market when it comes to anal sex toys but they all generally fall into two categories- hard and soft. Hard toys are great if you are hoping to directly stimulate the male or female g-spot. Soft anal sex toys can have a more lifelike feeling.

1. Anal sex is just for gay men. Men and women, gay, straight, and everything in-between can and do enjoy anal play. In men anal sex toys stimulate the prostate gland, which is also known as the ‘male g-spot’. Anal sex toys can stimulate the g-spot, indirectly, in woman.

2. Anal sex is painful. Like any kind of penetration there is a potential to make your partner uncomfortable or feel pain while having anal sex. The key is to go slowly, communicate often, and use plenty of lube.

3. Anal sex is dirty. All sexual acts involve an exchange of bodily fluids and have some small level of spreading disease. Part of being a considerate partner is keeping yourself clean and fresh. Most people are fine with showering or bathing before anal sex but there are anal douches on the market if you want an added level of cleanliness. When using anal sex toys, like with most toys, using a condom with them will make clean up easier and help stop the spread of germs.

Anal beads are usually round beads made from silicone or plastic, connected on a heavy-duty string. Most anal beads are varying sizes, progressing from small to big and these are highly recommended for beginners. The graduated balls slowly accustom the beginner to anal sex toys as he or she experience gradually expanding their anal muscles.

Using a lubricant is a major part of making yourself comfortable when experimenting with anal toys, anal beads included. The beads should be inserted one at a time, slowly, to make sure your partner is comfortable with the size. The beads can be left in while you have sex or while you use other toys or they can be used themselves for anal stimulating. Pulling the beads out and sliding them back in, one at a time, is immensely pleasurable. Tugging on the cord is a great way to tease your partner.

A big part of anal beads appeal is that they are easy to clean, extremely durable, and will last you for years if you take care of them. Mild soap and water or a special anal sex toy cleaner can be used to easily clean your anal beads.

The only thing you really have to worry about it if you tear at all when you use your extreme anal sex toys. Even a little tear has the potential for trouble. It makes you more likely to pick up STD’s (even in a monogamous relationship it pays to play safe!) or get an infection from the random bacteria passing through there.

As for the size issue have you and your partner ever tried a penis sleeve or girth rings or anything? They are an awesome gay sex toy that can give you the size you crave while your partner gets some enjoyment himself. I’ve used both and loved how they felt- and was even happier with how good I could tell it made my partner feel

The snap of the glove made Mary’s eyes fill with tears.

Stan stood behind her as she pressed up against the high wooden edge of the bed, her bare back arched, her legs spread and teetering on three-inch heels, her hands behind her spreading her cheeks as far as she could. So far the only sound had been the quick “Squiq a’squip” of Stan’s repeated application of lubricant on the bare fingers of his right hand, the moaning they both made as he had lubricated her pruned anus and then the retort of Stan snapping on the glove to his left hand.

Mary had been shaking when Stan had kissed her on entering his apartment and told her what he had planned, quivering when he stripped and bathed her, shaking fully as he walked her to stand naked against the bed’s edge, mewing as he bade her pull her cheeks apart, clutching when he applied the lube to her ass and now crying with the realization that, with the glove on, Stan was about to ply her asshole.

Of course Mary wanted nothing more in all the world for her boyfriend to finger-fuck her ass, in fact she was opening up as much as she could right then to prove to Stan that she could eventually take his cock up her. Sure, she knew they had to start small, with Stan’s finger, maybe two. Then, if all went well, Mary’d ask for a toy or two, something thin maybe, but strong, a toy made specifically for ass play; maybe even a plug, dildo beads…or all three!

Mary fantasized about it all.

Was anal like the classic pot to heroin conundrum? Did you take something small and thin at first, like Stan’s finger, then ache for something bigger eventually, say a giant thumpingly thick dildo to spread you ’til you ached? Christ, Mary nearly swooned then as she imagined it!

But was it really size, the big blonde wondered as she lean there and waited. What had Mary really want, beyond the fact that she was leaning and presenting her virgin starfish to this guy she had only known three months (Jesus, did she really want an ass fucking so much that she’d let Stan do this so early into their relationship?) was that Stan was so fucking confident. Mary needed, ached, fantasized about a guy like Stan, a guy who would simply know what she needed, not second-guess her decision or constantly ask her: “Are you sure? Are You sure?” A man who simply would bring the glove and lubricant he needed, tell her this night was the night, bathe her, dry her, and then get her standing ready and willing to do what she had wanted to do for so long but had never tried.

That Stan was methodically moving forward to the obvious conclusion of putting his finger or fingers up her ass now, that he had yet to say a word really after he bathed her, that he was breathing lightly, hadn’t made a move to touch her anywhere else, nor turned her, or stepped to the side to even look at her, got Mary all that more turned-on, all that more assured, all that more submissive to this act of anal sex. Though she had masturbated to just this scenario many times she had never realized how sweetly erotic the entire escapade would be when she finally got the chance to experience it.

“Hurmp,” Mary said as Stan suddenly clutched up to her. He had hold of her left cheek vertically, spreading it even more as he snaked his covered cool wet fingers deep into her ass.

Mary smacked her pussy against the hard wooden edge of the bed and felt her stomach clutch. Shit, was she gonna come this quick?

“Open,” was all Stan said and Mary pulled with her right hand, spread that cheek for Stan and his fingers spider-ed into her, his middle finger stretching, deep and true.

Tears started to stream down Mary’s pretty pale face when the tip of Stan’s middle finger tickled her hole. Weeping fully then, Mary lost her reason as Stan fed his long lubed finger into Mary’s ass, up to the first knuckle. As she came and cried Mary looked back at Stan who looked up to her and smiled.

“You are never going to be the same,” he said and pushed in deeper.

Mary bit back a yelp, rolled up on her tip toes and knew, deeper then she had ever known anything about herself, that indeed she would never be the same.

Nor did she damn well want to be.

I saw this forum thread somewhere else…check it out

Newbie: I’m a little new to both the Tabu Toys forums and to anal sex toys or even anal sex in general. I keep on hearing a lot about using latex gloves when fisting and putting condoms on your anal sex toys before using them but kind of don’t see the point. What do you guys think?

Wildbill: I always use condoms on my anal sex toys. It makes clean up a snap. All you do is slide that rubber off and you’re done. I think my anal sex toys last longer and work better because of it.
My girl demands we use latex gloves when doing any type of anal play. Mostly because she likes it to be just one of many things we do at a time and, of course is worried about spreading germs to her other areas.

MysticAngel: Anal tissue can tear easily! You are so much more likely to get a disease; you should definitely use condoms and gloves. Even if you’re both tested and loyal to each other you still have to worry about regular old staph infections.

Sexymom: Call me crazy but I’ve always thought using latex gloves makes fisting a little more painless. I swear that the combination of gloves and lube make for a smoother experience.

Alright, admittedly we’d all had way too much to drink. The food Sam made was delicious, and the company was, as always, exquisite. As was usual when the three of us got together, the night was stretching into the wee hours. A trip to the ladies’ room and a quick glance in the mirror showed me that my makeup was smudgy, and my mascara was beginning to give me raccoon eyes. Oh hell, it’s not like it mattered. These were two of my oldest, best friends, going way back to middle school together. Hell, it’s not like either of them were wearing their booze any better than I was.

There was no bedroom in Kevin’s teensy apartment. Upon realizing that I was not going to be driving home, I made myself comfortable on his futon, claiming his pillow for myself. Sam stretched his long legs out toward me from the other end of the futon. Kevin lit candles and turned down the lights. Refilled our glasses with the expensive red wine I’d brought as a special treat for my two still-living-the-party-life, who-needs-a-real-job friends. The French doors were open to the balcony and city sounds of drunken college girls out bar-hopping wafted gently up to us. The conversation had gone from great to silly. In our sleepy, drunken states we had taken up a combination of remembering the good old days, and planning our elderly years together. It always made me feel great that these two men thought we’d be together in the long run, living in a house on the beach. In this vision, Sam would bring coffee to my room every morning, and not care that I’d gotten old and gray.

I must have drifted off, because I suddenly realized that Kevin had moved and was lying on the pillows I’d tossed in the floor right next to my place on the futon. Sam had gotten his nasty bachelor feet off me, and was instead resting his head next to mine on the purloined pillow. Come to think of it, that was Sam’s arm wrapped around me. A bit strange as since we’d broken up in the eleventh grade, Sam and I had barely even flirted. They were still talking our futures, the places we’d go, the things we’d see and do.

My memory gets a bit dodgy here– the rest comes in bits and pieces. I remember Kevin making a bad joke about it being a shame Sam and I hadn’t ended up together. I don’t quite know how it happened, but it seems that Sam’s response to the bad joke was to pull me into him and kiss me. I also remember thinking that this was a bad idea. I quickly changed my mind, though when they both pulled off their pants, and mine, and I found out just how huge they both are. I never knew those two could be so acrobatic, but they gave it to me at the same time. I fell asleep with them both around me, feeling like I’d always be safe and taken care of.